Where is this Going?
- Lynn Howze
- Oct 7, 2020
- 2 min read
I don't know about you, but I really don't like being asked a lot of questions. Don't get me wrong, I can take maybe two or three at the most. I guess I should be honest with you, sometimes I'm irritated at question #1. I know where my dislike for questions comes from, but they are very necessary in our daily lives. If we don't ask questions, how will we know what to do next? I know you're reading this and saying, okay, where is this going?
This is where I am going, to get you to think about the question that you refuse to ask the person in your life that has more power over you, your life and where you want to go, than they should have. I have been there, in a relationship that was going nowhere. I knew it, everyone I knew was aware and so was anyone who passed by. I was the conveniently clueless one, and the reason I stayed in this state, was because I refused to ask my husband at the time, where is this going? I know, I know, you thought I was going to say boyfriend or some other relationship. Guess what? As wives and husbands, that question is just as relevant in a marriage as it is in any other type of relationship you are in, that you feel is going nowhere.
As a woman who loves God, I have to say that you should always consult God about what season you're in and where your life is going because He will definitely lead you where you need to go. But real talk, God has already told a lot of you reading this post, where you are going or where you should not be going with this relationship. This is not bad news because the dreaded question has been asked and answered. Where are we going is not a negative question in a relationship, it can be a start to making a plan to get somewhere. This is for those of you who got scared for a minute, thinking, my marriage is over. God has answered you too, it just might mean some work that you're going to have to put in. Just something for you to think about. #youshouldhaveaskedandansweredthequestionwhereisthisgoingalongtimeagosothatyoucouldgettothegoodpart
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